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blogging
Last updated: Dec 3

365 Days Writing Challenge – Checkpoint One

Blogging

First month of daily writing complete. The challenge shifts from excitement to discipline. Showing up [...]

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Last updated: Dec 3

The Virus That Killed The Modern State

Blogging , Relationships and Society

COVID exposed state incompetence and overreach simultaneously. Trust collapsed from both sides. The virus that [...]

toxic attachments
Last updated: Dec 3

The 6 Stages Of A Toxic Attachment (To Anything, Not Just A Person)

Meaningful Relationships , Relationships and Society

Toxic attachment progresses through six stages—idealization, dependency, rationalization, isolation, crisis, release. The pattern repeats across [...]

gamestop
Last updated: Dec 3

The GameStop Takeaway – We’re Already In A Post-Factual World, But We’re Just Entering A “Post-Fundamentals” Economy

Business , Crypto

GameStop proved fundamentals no longer determine prices. Coordinated sentiment beats balance sheets. Post-fundamentals economy runs [...]

the schnitzel effect
Last updated: Dec 3

The Schnitzel Effect

Location Independence , Travel and Fun

Schnitzel expectations set disappointment thresholds. When reality matches mediocre standards, satisfaction follows. The effect—lowered expectations [...]

playing music
Last updated: Dec 3

Playing Music To Someone Who Can’t Hear You

Relationships and Society

Communication requires shared frequency. Playing music to deaf ears wastes breath. The lesson—find audiences capable [...]

new normal
Last updated: Dec 3

The “New Normal” Is The Old Abnormal, With A Twist

Health and Fitness , Relationships and Society

New normal rebrands abnormal as acceptable. COVID measures normalized authoritarian overreach. The twist—temporary becomes permanent [...]

all people are ok
Last updated: Dec 3

All People Are OK, Their Actions May Be Off At Times

Meaningful Relationships , Relationships and Society

Separate person from behavior. Everyone's fundamentally OK—actions sometimes aren't. The distinction prevents demonization while allowing [...]

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Last updated: Dec 3

Learning To Play The Guitar – 5 Months Later

Blogging , Success and Wellness

Five months of guitar. Calluses formed, chords connect, rhythm emerges. Progress is visible but incomplete. [...]

el viento viene, el viento se va
Last updated: Dec 3

El Viento Viene, El Viento Se Va

Spirituality and Beliefs , Travel and Fun

Wind comes, wind goes. Spanish wisdom about impermanence. Everything passes—good and bad. Attachment to either [...]

obsolete
Last updated: Dec 3

When Is Something Becoming Obsolete?

Relationships and Society , Technology

Obsolescence happens gradually then suddenly. Technology becomes obsolete when better alternatives exist. The transition—useful to [...]

blockchain
Last updated: Dec 3

The Yet To Be Fulfilled Promise Of Blockchain

Business , Crypto

Blockchain promised decentralization, transparency, disintermediation. Decade later—speculation dominates, real use cases remain rare. Promise unfulfilled [...]

surprised
Last updated: Dec 3

The World Might Be A Better Place If Everyone Would Treat Their Opinions As They Treat Their Dicks

Meaningful Relationships , Relationships and Society

People brandish opinions publicly but keep genitals private. Reversing the protocol improves discourse—modest about opinions, [...]

hard reset
Last updated: Dec 3

Hard Resets versus Soft Resets

Motivation and Inspiration , Success and Wellness

Hard resets wipe everything, start fresh. Soft resets preserve some continuity. Life requires both—knowing which [...]

messy beginnings
Last updated: Dec 3

What’s Left After The Messy Beginning

Meaningful Relationships , Relationships and Society

Beginnings are messy—confusion, mistakes, false starts. What remains after cleanup reveals actual foundation. The mess [...]

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Last updated: Dec 3

Is It Still Worth Promoting Your Blog On Facebook Or Instagram? An Experiment

Blogging , Business

Social media reach collapsed organically. Platforms favor paid promotion. Experiment tests whether organic blog sharing [...]

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Last updated: Dec 3

What Nobody Is Telling You About Boiling Frogs

Relationships and Society , Spirituality and Beliefs

Boiling frog myth is false—frogs jump out. But humans don't. Gradual degradation normalizes. We're the [...]

brewing beer
Last updated: Dec 3

5 Things Brewing Beer Taught Me About Relationships

Relationships and Society , Travel and Fun

Beer brewing requires patience, temperature control, contamination prevention, timing, fermentation. Relationships need identical elements—rush any [...]

social media
Last updated: Dec 3

Hi, I’m Media. Social Media.

Relationships and Society

Social media introduced itself as connection platform. Revealed itself as manipulation engine. The name stayed, [...]

fake it till you make it
Last updated: Dec 3

Fake It Till You Make It – The Safe Path To Failure

Relationships and Society

Fake it till you make it breeds impostor syndrome. Pretending competence prevents learning. The path [...]

electric cars
Last updated: Dec 3

Today’s A-ha Moment Comes From A-Ha, The Norwegian Pop Band

Blogging , Spirituality and Beliefs

Every once in a while, the endless scrolling on Twitter can reveal something actually interesting.

super compensation
Last updated: Dec 3

You’re Improving While You’re Resting, Not While You’re Running

Health and Fitness , Running

Muscles grow during rest, not training. Skills integrate during sleep, not practice. Improvement happens in [...]

fear versus hunger
Last updated: Dec 3

Fear versus Hunger

Relationships and Society

Fear motivates escape. Hunger motivates pursuit. One runs from, one runs toward. Sustainable motivation comes [...]

cancel culture
Last updated: Dec 3

Learning To Agree To Disagree

Relationships and Society

Agreeing to disagree preserves relationships across different beliefs. The skill—holding conflicting views without demanding conversion. [...]

causes, effects and circumstances
Last updated: Dec 3

Causes, Effects and Circumstances

Relationships and Society , Spirituality and Beliefs

Causes create effects through circumstances. Same cause produces different effects in different conditions. Understanding circumstances [...]

flavors of courage
Last updated: Dec 3

Flavors Of Courage

Motivation and Inspiration , Success and Wellness

The first image that comes to your head when you try to define courage?...

from goals to habits
Last updated: Dec 3

From Goals to Habits, via Challenges

Getting Things Done , Productivity and Effectiveness

Goals define targets. Challenges create momentum. Habits sustain behavior. The progression—goal sets direction, challenge builds [...]

2020 fitness recap
Last updated: Dec 3

A Short Fitness Recap Of 2020

Health and Fitness

2020 fitness during lockdowns—improvisation, home workouts, running empty streets. Constraints revealed what's essential versus what's [...]

goal setting
Last updated: Dec 3

The Subtle Danger Of Being Able To Do Whatever You Want

Financial Resilience , Spirituality and Beliefs

Unlimited freedom paralyzes through infinite choice. Constraints create focus. Ability to do anything often produces [...]

processing failure
Last updated: Dec 3

Processing Failure

Motivation and Inspiration , Success and Wellness

Failure needs processing or it festers. The work—extracting lessons without dwelling, accepting without excusing, moving [...]

writing challenge
Last updated: Dec 3

New Year, New Writing Challenge

Blogging , Productivity and Effectiveness

New Year launches 365-day daily writing challenge. Commitment before clarity. The challenge—showing up regardless of [...]

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