bucket list revisited
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In October 2013 I published a list of 77 things worth doing for no reason other than capability — “just because you can.” The list had three categories: things I’d already done, things I wanted to do, and things that are “just too cool not to be done in this lifetime.” Item one was run a marathon. It’s 2026. Let me tell you what happened.

What Got Crossed Off

The marathon got crossed off several times over, and then the finish line kept moving. I ran my first marathon, then more. Then ultras. The Ultrabalaton is 220km — I did the full thing in stages. The thing the 2013 list described as audacious became something I do more or less regularly. Which says something interesting about what “just because you can” does to a person if you take it seriously: the boundary of what you can do expands with use.

A lot of the travel items got done — lived in multiple countries, moved with only what fits in carry-on luggage, spent extended time in places I’d only read about. The location independence chapter ran for years and produced experiences that don’t compress well into list format. Some of the things on the list turned out to be better than promised. Some were fine and forgettable. A few were overrated in exactly the ways the 2013 me couldn’t have predicted without doing them.

What “Just Because You Can” Looks Like With More Skin in the Game

Back in 2013, the opportunity cost of doing something audacious was real but not yet heavy. Now it’s heavier — not because I have less energy but because I have more clarity about what I’m trading when I say yes to something large. Time, specifically. Finite, non-renewable time.

“Just because you can” still works as a reason. But it competes with a more important filter now: does this pull me, genuinely, or does it just satisfy a version of me that wants to have done it? The 2013 list mixed those two up freely. Some items were on there because they sounded right in a list about capability. Others were on there because I actually wanted them. At 55 I’m better at telling the difference before committing, rather than after.

What I’d Add That Didn’t Exist in 2013

The 2013 list was constrained by what was imaginable in 2013. There are things on the list I’d write today that simply weren’t options then.

Building a functional iOS app by describing what you want in plain language and having an AI help you build it — that wasn’t on anyone’s list in 2013. I’ve now done it eight times, with three more in progress. The capability the 2013 list was pointing at — do things because you can — now extends into territory that would have read as science fiction. Building software without being a software engineer. Running personal AI agents that handle parts of my workflow. These belong on the 2026 list not as novelties but as genuine expansions of what a single person can build.

The other addition is quieter: things that are worth doing slowly, on purpose, for a long time. A 13-year-old list feels like it assumed most things worth doing are one-time events. But the best things on my actual lived list are ongoing — writing, traveling, building, parenting. Not items to cross off. Commitments that keep going on.

The Items That Didn’t Survive

Some things on the 2013 list are no longer on any list. A few because I lost interest in the category entirely. A few because the physical window closed — things I might have done at 43 that aren’t realistic at 55, not because of incapacity but because the energy budget goes to other things that matter more. And a few because I did them and they quietly dropped off. Checked, and released.

This is the part the original list couldn’t account for: not everything worth doing stays worth doing. Some aspirations have an expiration date, and that’s fine. The list was a document of what I wanted to reach for in 2013. In 2026 the reach goes in different directions — further in some dimensions, shorter in others, and into territory the 2013 version of this list had no coordinates for.

📅 Then & Now — 30 Day Blog Challenge

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  1. Day 1: Answering My Own 33 Self-Interview Questions — 17 Years Later
  2. Day 2: What Tango Actually Taught Me About Relationships (A Decade Later)
  3. Day 3: Everything I Built That Fell Down (And What I Learned About Building Anyway)
  4. Day 4: 25 Things To Do In Your Life – Then And Now
  5. Day 5: The Action/Reaction Trap: Why I Had It Half Right in 2009
  6. Day 6: Boredom Is a Feature, Not a Bug — And We've Almost Deleted It
  7. Day 7: Raw Food in 2026: What I'd Tell My 2009 Self About Eating Better
  8. Day 8: 3 Lifestyle Design Blueprints I've Lived (Plus a 4th One That Works Best These Days)
  9. Day 9: 100 Ways to Live a Better Life — 17 Years After: What Actually Worked
  10. Day 10: 17 Years of Social Networks Later: What Actually Replaced What
  11. Day 11: Technology, Ideology, and What Actually Happened Since 2018
  12. Day 12: Steadily Fluid After 10 Years: How Does It Feel to Live With the Paradox?
  13. Day 13: The First 6 Months of Blogging After 17 Years of Blogging
  14. Day 14: 15 Years of Motivation: From Tiny, Genuine Sparks to Burning Out
  15. Day 15: The Right Tool for the Job in 2026: What AI Changes About the Wrench Problem
  16. Day 16: 7 Kung Fu Panda Lessons, 16 Years Later — What Po Actually Got Right
  17. Day 17: 77 Things I Still Want to Do, 13 Years Later — and What I've Crossed Off
  18. Day 18: How I Actually End My Day in 2026 - Compared with 2011
  19. Day 19: 7 Things To Do When the Shit Hits the Fan — 15 Years Later
  20. Day 20: Living as a Digital Nomad: Revisiting a 16-Year-Old Primer
  21. Day 21: 7 Reasons to Enjoy Life More — 16 Years Later
  22. Day 22: 77 Reasons to Love Your Life — Why I'd Write This Differently After 17 Years
  23. Day 23: The Diamond Cutter, 12 Years Later — Buddhism as a Daily Practice
  24. Day 24: Life Has No Meaning - In 2026 I Still Think This Is Good News
  25. Day 25: The Ancestor Syndrome - Revisiting Inherited Money Beliefs 10 Years After
  26. Day 26: Why I'm Still Learning to Say No (17 Years After Writing About It)
  27. Day 27: Frustration as a Growth Signal - Revisiting After 15 Years
  28. Day 28: The 2026 Definition of Success - 10 Years after I First Tried My First One
  29. Day 29: Are You The Best Version of Yourself? - Checking In After 16 Years
  30. Day 30: The Price of Illusions - 16 Years Later
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